Happiness is always an inside job

No one, no matter how wonderful they are, can meet all of our expectations at every moment of every day. It is impossible. Love lives inside of you. If you rely on yourself to fill the empty spaces, you will take a lot of pressure off of your partner, which in turn can only enhance the relationship.
Fill the empty spaces in your heart. Love yourself... Accept yourself... Comfort yourself... Be what you are seeking to find. Be whole on your own, and then share that wholeness with your partner.